Communication is the backbone of workplace culture. It’s the thing that shapes trust, collaboration and productivity, and it keeps businesses moving and growing… or not.
But despite being one of the best-known soft skills, communication is often misunderstood or taken for granted. There’s no single definition of what good communication looks like – it’s a melting pot of lots of other soft skills, from active listening to empathy to conflict resolution.
Well, we think it’s time we stopped misunderstanding this crucial soft skill. Below, we’re going to dig into what really makes a great communicator, how you can spot a bad one and, most importantly, how you can improve your communication skills.
If you’ve ever spent your weekend fretting about a mysterious ‘We need to talk first thing Monday morning’ message from your manager, or felt put out by a blunt request, or felt like a colleague’s criticism was just a little too personal, you’ll know how big an impact communication can have on your work life.
And we all instinctively know what good communication skills look like. It’s about not just talking, but listening. It’s about speaking with clarity and confidence. It’s about showing empathy, getting the right tone, making use of appropriate body language and so much more.
And it shows up everywhere. From team meetings to quick Slack messages to all-company emails, communication couldn’t be more vital to the way we work. It’s multi-dimensional, and it directly impacts efficiency, productivity, morale, relationships and even employee wellbeing.
From frantic 10pm WhatsApp messages from your boss to the anticlimactic 👍 response to your long, carefully considered Slack update, communication is intrinsically woven into every single aspect of the way we work. That’s why nailing your communication skills really, really matters.
Good communication is an art, not a science. There’s no single way to become better at communicating, as so much of communication is tied in with being authentic and genuine.
Broadly speaking, some of the key traits and behaviours of strong communicators are:
For example, imagine a project manager is communicating a tricky shift in timelines.
A strong communicator will be clear and honest, while also acknowledging that these shifts could be challenging for their colleagues. They will listen to colleagues’ concerns and engage in dialogue.
Let’s take that same example of a project manager.
A weak communicator may deliver the news flippantly or turn it into a joke. They might be unclear about what this means for the team working hard to meet the deadlines, and won’t invite questions or try to empathise.
The tell-tale signs of a poor communicator include:
We’ve all seen these traits at work – whether it’s the manager who blames everyone else for misunderstanding their vague instructions, or the colleague who loves the sound of their own voice, or the intern who rolls their eyes every time they’re asked to do something.
It may feel frustrating in the moment, but the consequences can be much further reaching. Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, mistakes, duplication of work, conflict, disengagement and poor morale.
Now we’re onto the really important stuff: if you know your communication skills need a bit of work, or you want to become an even better communicator, how do you do that?
There are a few practical tips you can try out to improve your communication skills at work, so let’s take a look!
Remember that communication is a soft skill, not a personality trait. If you wouldn’t consider yourself a great communicator right now, there’s absolutely no reason you can’t develop your skills over time, so don’t give up hope. Developing these soft skills is all part of cultivating a growth mindset – more to come on that next week!
You may have seen us talking about Helix, our new AI skills intelligence platform. The good news is that Helix is ideal for anyone looking to track and improve their communication skills, alongside complementary skills like active listening, change management and coaching (we call them the Core 9).
Helix provides a clear picture of where individuals and teams are strong or need to work on their communication skills in the form of a handy skills heatmap. For instance, maybe your marketing team has exceptionally strong communication skills and should focus their efforts elsewhere, while your accounting team may need a little more guidance to become better communicators.
It also tracks progress over time, allowing both individuals and the L&D team to see how people are improving over time. This empowers managers to coach employees more effectively by spotting skills gaps before they become skills chasms, and recommending the right learning content and coaching interventions to boost communication skills.
Essentially, Helix makes traditionally nebulous communication skills measurable and actionable, turning a vague concept into tangible growth – all backed by real-time data and evidence.